When the Cracks appear

• When in the lull of a conversation you find that only you have been doing all the talking .
• When everything you say gets mis-interpreted for something dark and ugly.
• When nothing you say or do can call a truce to any argument.
• When you get mistaken for a liar or something close to a traitor.
• When you see that he can't fit into your family because he wouldn't try.
• When every time you want to spend time with your family despite your best efforts he doesn't feel included.
• When there's more giving, less loving and nothing in return.
• When after every fight your the only one who wants to make up faster than you have had a fight.
• When you know that's he's taking advantage of you emotionally but you still give him full reign.
• When your friends try to tell you in silent ways that he isn't the one for you.
• When after all that has happened you are the one who wants to forgive but he can't and won't.
• When you realize that attraction is not a substitute for intimacy.
• When you look at old pictures and realize there's more that you wanted than just kisses and sex.
• When small gestures of love get taken for granted.
• When small gestures of love are met with indifference.
• When you feel your the only one making an effort to meet things half-way and he's not budging an inch.
• When most days you spend crying yourself to sleep or awake listing out all your faults.
• When you can take the distance and he can't because it's easier for him to let go.
• When frustration becomes a routine around him.
• When your waiting on a phone call (that never happens)saying he cares enough although you live in a different country.
• When he won't say goodbye as you leave the country because you couldn't spend your last minutes on a call/internet chat with him.
• When you hate to admit that although you have heard the Cliché time and again. 'Age' does matter.
• Immaturity doesn't always have something to do with age, he can be 90 but, behave like a 10-year old all the same.
• When he won't discuss his future with you .
• When he refuses to tell you if he makes plans that involve long travel.
• When you hope that he is going to surprise you with something thoughtful but he never does.
• While, when he is standing right next to you he pays better attention to people around you.( Yes, other Girls!)
• When compliments don't come easily to him when it's you. But it flows readily when it's another girl. 
• When he refuses to understand the need to make you feel special and cared for(anything really that sets you apart from the rest) , compliments and gifts aside.
• When he says you expect too much and justifies it by saying it's his first relationship.
• When he hates talking about his past or past relationships even after you have aired all your dirty linen.

The Universe conspires to give you what you want!

When we least expect it, the Universe gives us everything we ever wanted. Is it a conspiracy? Most definitely yes! The Universe is forever plotting to give us everything we desire. The key to getting it is pretty obvious.You just need to Ask for what you need, Believe that it has already been received and Thank the universe for sending it your way.

People are way too focused on things they need and rather than thinking of ways to get it. They want to moan about how life won't treat them fairly to just give them all they need. I was one of those people and I'm going to be re-reading this post of mine for a long time to remind myself to stop complaining. We have all heard everyone loves a secret and this one is the Ultimate secret. If you want to know what has made Oprah successful- this is what she has been promoting from the beginning of her show.

Oprah's motivation is to inspire people to take control of their lives. I'm not into too much of philosophy. But this theory is too simple not to follow. The funny part is all of us have been doing it and were never truly aware of it. Haven't we all at some point in our lives truly believed that something might truly work in our favor? It can be something as simple as craving a cinnamon donut, a dream job, a cruise into the wide open seas, an adventure sport or waiting on that one person who makes your heart beat one to the dozen.

Oprah- “they say you can have it, in fact you already hold the power to make that happen”. I have always loved that way of thinking. When you know you have the control to change your life. It's exhilarating. I never truly believed it until i began to manifest things into the universe. The positive feeling of knowing that you will receive the very best and the universe is plotting every possible way of getting it to you, gives me that feeling that I can conquer the world.

I read somewhere that a person with the right attitude can never be dissatisfied.

This is an orderly universe. Nothing happens by accident. The images you plant in your marvelous mind instantly set up an attractive force, which governs the results in your life. I love how that theory works. I try to put it into practice every single day of my life. I'm not saying it has immediate results and that I feel very happy to wait. But when things truly begin to move the way you want them to. There is nothing more rewarding than that feeling of pleasure you get because your the one that set those wheels moving.

Thank you, Universe.