That includes me and me and only Me. How often do we criticize and are hypocritical of ourselves. Probably none too often. But if we cut to the chase all we want to do is protect ourselves.While I was networking on Facebook the other day, I came across this status of a friend that comes to mind "These are the marks that words have left on me".It seems very poignant and thoughtful .
I usually like to protect myself from a persons brutal,sarcastic or flippant remark by ignorance or playing deaf.It gets me nowhere as the other person always finds that the target of bigger and better amusement.All i need to do is find a better outlook of dealing with another persons' negativity toward me.Retaliating in kind is not an option as you make yourselves come down to their level of innate childishness.
My new motto is to stay as impersonal as you can get to another's words.They could never have the Power to reduce you to a sobbing nincompoop unless you allow them to.My source of inspiration comes when there are huge family gatherings.You get to meet people who you are desperately trying to avoid and then there is a death,or a birth ,anniversary or weddings that demand your presence.I am always amazed at the meet and greet section when someone comes up to you and immediately addresses you on how many pounds you have lost or added to yourself. And Hello,to them too. That's exactly what we were looking for. A walking weighing scale who reports our every progress. Right on Spot.
I believe everyone has their own load to carry.Not all of us can be diplomatic when showing our disdain and being condescending to another who hasn't earned it is just plain mean and uncalled for. Who are we to be judgmental and articulate opinions based on another persons' weight. If not but a kind word , I feel if there is something on our mind and it needs an outlet. At the very least give it some thought before it slips out of your mouth carelessly.
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