Frowns, Groans and Picking yourself off the Floor

When you know things are not going your way the best thing to do is to hold onto your Kittens and enjoy the intense ride.
I know everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. But what if any shoulder you need just decides that they have more important things to bother about. I guess your on  your own then, chum! So here's what I would do at these times.

•  Think of taking a long walk to clear my head out of its misery.
•  Eat anything that is Chocolate and have a single-minded ambition to drown yourself in it someday. At least, you die Happy .
•  Read Romantic no-good novels that talk about Sex as a "love-making" act and indulge in foolish fantasies that mostly never work the way you think they could.
• Sleep around all day and think of really good reasons to get out of Bed.
• Count your breathing.
• Walk around aimlessly until you realize that you might as well get out of the house before it's too late.
• Get yourself drunk..until you forget who your with and where you are.
• Dance like a Maniac and forget the world around you. 
• Make new friends hopefully not in the rest room of a night club.
• Sing or hum constantly when you think you can beat the likes of Beyonce /J Lo/Mariah .

This isn't the best list and I hate to think that I might be preaching. But it's something that helps me along the way. There does come a time in a person's life when you touch rock bottom. When you do, the only thing to do is try and swim back to the surface with every ounce of strength you possess.

It is so rewarding when you finally get there. It's like you give birth to a new You.

I learn to love little things about myself every day. One day I know this love will make me love someone else too.

Love and Luck  always.